>>
bales' wife carrie is speaking out for the very first time. we sat down with her exclusively over the weekend and i asked her about the situation her husband is in.
>>
i was actually at the grocery store that morning, and a
phone call
from my parents, and they said well it looks like a u.s. soldier, some afghan civilians were killed by a soldier.
>>
and when you got home, did you hear the story expanded upon first before you heard bob's name mentioned?
>>
i saw 38-year-old staff sergeant, and i don't think there are very many of those, and i probably prayed and prayed that my husband wasn't involved. and then, i received a
phone call
from the army saying that they would like to come out and talk to me. and i was relieved, because when you get a
phone call
, you know that your soldier is not deceased.
>>
can you remember what they said?
>>
they held my hand and they just said that perhaps, you know, they thought that he had left the base, and gone out and perhaps killed the afghan civilians, and that was really the only sentence, and i just started crying.
>>
tell me what you believed.
>>
i just -- it seemed to me like, i -- i just don't think he was involved.
>>
you think this is all mistaken identity? do you think this is -- is he being made a
fall guy
for someone else?
>>
i don't know.
>>
17 people
were killed.
>>
right. i don't know enough information. i -- this is not him. it's not him.
>>
have you -- how do you get your head around that kind of news?
>>
it's devastating to hear, and it's -- it hurts my heart. you know. very, very saddened
>>
this is the guy you described as your
best friend
.
>>
right.
>>
and he's being charged with first degree murder. in other words, premeditated. that he planned this.
>>
it's very unbelievable. it just -- all i can think of is what happened. what led up to it? i don't -- we don't have all the -- i feel like i don't have all the information.
>>
i ask what kind of dad he was. you said he was so involved with his children. he loves children.
>>
he loves children. he's like a
big kid
himself.
>>
he is accused of killing nine children.
>>
right.
>>
innocent children.
>>
i have no idea what happened. but he would not -- he loves children. and he would not do that. it's heartbreaking. i can't imagine losing my children. so my heart definitely goes out to them for losing all of their children.
>>
is it possible in your mind that this is just the stress of war?
>>
that's what i thought of. yeah. it seems like this mission was different than the
iraq
tours. so, more intense.
>>
how did you get word that he would be deployed a fourth time?
>>
it was a big shock. because we weren't on the schedule to be deployed again, to be honest with you. he didn't want to miss out on any more of his kids' life. when he had joined he had wanted to go to
afghanistan
. going to
afghanistan
didn't worry him. it was more about being just away from the family, more time.
>>
how did you two deal with it?
>>
i was -- i was upset, you know. because i was hoping, i was planning my next phases with my family. and being able to share with him.
>>
prior to being deployed to
afghanistan
, his fourth deployment overall, he would have been screened at the base here. right?
>>
right.
>>
he would have gone through a physical screening and mental screening.
>>
right.
>>
are you completely confident that he was absolutely okay to be deployed that fourth time?
>>
yes. yep.
>>
there were no issues?
>>
no.
>>
there have been some reports, kari, that during his deployment in
iraq
, there were two injuries. all right, he suffered what was called a
brain injury
. a
traumatic brain injury
. what can you tell me about that.
>>
the only time i ever heard about any of those things was after he got back. he kept a lot of it from me.
>>
he suffered a
traumatic brain injury
, you're his wife by that point, he's communicating with you on a regular basis, and you never heard about it?
>>
no. nope, not until he came back and said that he, you know, had been blown up. he shielded me from a lot of what he went through. he's a very tough guy.
>>
do you believe that your husband ever showed signs of ptsd prior to this deployment or during this deployment?
>>
i don't know a lot about the symptoms of ptsd, so i wouldn't know -- he doesn't have nightmares, you know, things like that. no dreams.
>>
trouble concentrating. erratic behavior shifts, anything like that?
>>
no.
>>
is there a question we should be asking ourselves about the stresses and strains that we put our military personnel under through this multiple deployments. what do you think about that?
>>
i think what's missing is the human aspects. they are first and foremost human. they are trained to be warriors to protect our freedoms. and people don't see the human side.
>>
your husband was trained to be a warrior.
>>
proudly. and defend his country.
>>
he may have seen some things during that time as a warrior that adversely affected him.
>>
i would say that a lot of people that have been deployed to
iraq
and
afghanistan
have seen a lot of things that affected them. it can't not affect you.
>>
you've spoken to him twice on the phone. did you say sweetheart, did you do this?
>>
no. no.
>>
i mean, as a spouse wouldn't you want to ask that question, quickly, honey, why are they saying these things about you?
>>
not on the monitored
phone call
. so we couldn't discuss those details. he was -- seemed a bit confused. as to where he was and why he was there.
>>
will there come a time when you get to see bob where you will look him straight in the eye and ask him?
>>
probably.
>>
probably.
>>
probably.
>>
not definitely --
>>
i don't think i'll have to ask him is what i mean. i think he'll tell me what happened. from his point of view.
>>
he is -- it seems, headed for trial. i mean, if this all progresses the way it seems to be progressing. that's going to be a very costly situation.
>>
it is. and so, we actually have set up a fund, a defense fund on bob's behalf.
>>
do you feel you're going to have any trouble convincing people to contribute to a defense fund, given the horrific nature of the crimes he's accused of?
>>
you know, i think that all soldiers, all people deserve the
best defense
that they can get. and i believe he deserves the
best defense
. to know what happened.
>>
the
u.s. military
believes its evidence is as strong as kari's faith in her husband. i think some
people watching
, kari, are going to look and say that you're in denial. when you read some of the reports coming out that there's surveillance video that he walked back to the base and turned himself in, how do you square that and still say i don't think he was involved?
>>
i used to believe that everything i read was true, or you know, most things were true, and now, as i'm reading a little bit of these, some things are true, and some things aren't true. so i'm waiting to hear what actually is true.
>>
so if it turns out that he is on surveillance video, or that somebody in a position of power says, yes, he did turn himself in, and hand over his weapon after this, will that change your mind? or will nothing change your mind?
>>
i don't think anything will really change my mind in believing that he did not do this. this is not what it appears to be.
>>
as we mentioned, mrs. bales has set up a defense fund for her husband. to learn more about that you can visit our website at today.com. it's 13 minutes after
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